Rebecca Gayheart 'started weeping' when she learned of Eric Dane's ALS diagnosis
- - Rebecca Gayheart 'started weeping' when she learned of Eric Dane's ALS diagnosis
Mekishana PierreDecember 30, 2025 at 2:03 AM
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Rebecca Gayheart and Eric Dane in 2017
After being thrust back into the spotlight following her estranged husband Eric Dane's ALS diagnosis, Rebecca Gayheart has shared her side of the story as she helps Dane navigate the battle alongside their teen daughters, Billie, 15, and Georgia, 13.
In a lengthy piece published by The Cut on Monday, Gayheart recalled when she first learned of Dane's diagnosis after his symptoms started a year prior. "He was initially diagnosed with a few other things, but he had this sinking feeling that it was something more serious. And I was like, 'No, it's not. I promise you it's not. I can feel this! It's gonna be okay,'" she shared. "When he told me that day, he just started weeping, as did I. It didn't feel real because he was still okay.
"I didn't know all the details like I do now, but I knew enough about ALS to know that there wasn't a cure," she added.
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Eric Dane and Rebecca Gayheart with their kids Billie Beatrice and Georgia Geraldine in Paris
The Grey's Anatomy actor revealed his ALS diagnosis to the public in April, and the disease has visibly affected the star's ability to move freely since. In June, Dane told Diane Sawyer that he has lost function in his right arm, while his left one has been getting weaker. "I feel like maybe a couple more months and I won't have my left hand either," Dane said. "It's sobering."
In September, a noticeably less mobile Dane joined doctors and representatives from the I Am ALS organization for a discussion with California Congressman Eric Swalwell about investing in innovative treatments to ensure access to quality care for those diagnosed with ALS, as well as their families and researchers.
Although Gayheart and Dane have been separated since 2017, the pair have presented a strong united front since the actor shared his diagnosis, which she explained reflects their relationship away from the spotlight, in their separate homes "12 minutes away" from each other.
"It's a very complicated relationship, one that's confusing for people," Gayheart noted. "Our love may not be romantic, but it's a familial love. Eric knows that I am always going to want the best for him. That I'm going to do my best to do right by him. And I know he would do the same for me. So whatever I can do or however I can show up to make this journey better for him or easier for him, I want to do that. And I want to model that for my girls: That's what you do. That's the right thing to do."
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Rebecca Gayheart in 2024
Gayheart has been candid about how the former couple's daughters are doing their best to handle their father's diagnosis with care, and with professional help from therapists targeted toward teenage girls.
"It's such a formative time in their lives — they're trying to individuate while they're having to deal with this really huge loss and anticipatory grief," she explained.
Gayheart noted that "there really isn't a road map" when it comes to ALS. "No matter how prepared you are, or how much I prepare the girls, or how much Eric prepares himself, he'll wake up one morning and there's something else that is an obstacle, or he's lost the ability to do one more thing — it just comes out of nowhere. It's a terrible, terrible disease," she added.
Since Dane disclosed his diagnosis in April, the actor has been the face of a public campaign to find federal funding for research on the incurable neurological disease. And while Gayheart still holds "a little glimmer of hope," she shared that facing the realism of their situation "feels like I'm walking on one of those bridges that are made out of ropes, and it's just going on forever and I'm never gonna get to the other side."
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Eric Dane as an ALS patient on 'Brilliant Minds'
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The actress emphasized that her focus remains on her children, as well as trying to "figure out" how to manage everything while keeping her self-care in mind.
"I know I'm gonna be judged for saying that, but I think it's important for my girls to see that yes, we can do this and we can do that," she said. "I think I will get to a place where I'm managing it all better. But listen, I'm 54; I have been through a lot of my life. I know I can do hard things and survive them."
She continued, "I don't want us sitting around thinking, 'This horrible thing is happening, so I'm not allowed to ever be happy or feel joy, or waiting for the other shoe to drop.' I want us, them and myself, to try to focus more on the present and make today meaningful."
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